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And before I get dumped on. A couple of disclaimers. (1) I'm sure guys do this stuff, too. (2) I'm obviously not that good a catch or I'd already be married, but I'm not overweight or unattractive. (3) I had been very careful to always be courteous and accommodating to these girls and to NOT misrepresent myself on my profile or elsewhere.
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Ignore those rules about waiting three days to get in touch. If you like someone, you've got nothing to lose by letting them know. If they're interested, they'll be happy that you called. If they're not interested, at least you'll understand -- and you can move on to the next date.
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